Read Matthew 22:34-46 with your family.
What does it mean to be a Christian? Jesus answered that one: it means we have to love God above all else and love everyone else like we love ourselves AND we have to love ourselves like we love everyone else.
Often people think there was only two parts to this section of scripture that we call The Greatest Commandment, but there is actually three: God, neighbours and ourselves.
How do we love God? We pray and we do what God has asked us to do to take care of other people.
How do we love our neighbours? We are kind to others, welcome strangers, and help make sure everyone has food to eat and a safe place to live, and all the other things Jesus told us to do for other people.
How doe we love ourselves?
This is something the church doesn’t talk about, instead the church often tells people what is wrong with them and how they have to change. But Jesus never said we had to change who we are, we just have to love everyone. That’s about behaviour not who we are as people.
How we love ourselves is knowing that God made us perfect just the way we are on the inside, and we can make any choice we want to change the outside, so long as it doesn’t hurt us or anyone else. God loves us as we are. Once we love ourselves it is easier to love strangers and people we know.